Being a good husband means doting on your wife. (That’s “doting” as in showing love.)
Doting doesn’t mean allowing her to see a movie.
Doting doesn’t mean giving her $20 and time to herself.
Doting is random acts of kindness.
It’s a note that just says
I just wanted you to know…
I LOVE YOU.
It’s a flower and a card.
It’s breakfast in bed on her birthday.
It doesn’t follow a schedule but it can happen more than once per week.